It’s okay to spend a lot of money on yourself, or to take long, unnecessary showers. It’s okay to chase the life that you want for yourself. It’s okay to take naps in the middle of the day and to go on long walks when you’re sad. It’s okay to spend a day watching crappy television and spend the next day reading books. It’s okay to give yourself a day off when you’re feeling sick. It’s okay to spend hours cooking a delicious dinner just for yourself.